6.26.2014

Confidence in Cosplay at Anime Fest 2014 - We Need Your Help!


One of Superheroesque's most popular posts is Cosplay & Self Esteem, where I shared my personal story of how cosplaying has improved my confidence in my abilities and self-image. I've always wanted to give back to the community that has helped me so much, and doing a panel seemed to be the perfect way to do it!

So Superheroesque (Liz and Mia) are partnering with a few awesome people (Samurai Pizza Kitten Cosplay and My Geeky Geeky Ways) to do an extended panel discussion on confidence in cosplay at Anime Fest in Dallas, Texas. Topics will include how to feel comfortable and confident in cosplay, maintaining a positive body image, cosplay as a transformative hobby, diversity in the cosplay world, and more. I'm so excited to bring this panel to fruition, but I need help from you!

Anime Fest holds voting to see which panels have the most interest, and we need your votes. Unfortunately, only pre-registered attendees for the convention can vote, but you can help in other ways! Please share this post and the voting link with any friends you have that may be attending Anime Fest.

Thank you so much for your support!

Mia is one half of SHe's founding team, in charge of social media, blogging management, and guest content wrangling. MBA student concentrating in Digital Marketing by day, geek of all trades by night. Loves dressing up, advocating for self-love, and crying about magical girls.
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6.24.2014

What Gives You Social Anxiety?



Today, I'm asking for a favor. I'm making a video series on how to deal with (social) anxiety, and I need your help. What makes you most anxious? What would you like help to improve with your social or personal life? Specific examples or general ideas are welcome!

You can tweet me @LizLocksley, email me superheroesque[at]gmail.com or leave a comment!





Liz is one half of SHe's founding team, in charge of business, audio/video, and managing webpages. Liz has a degree in sociology and a brain full of cartoons. She can be found regularly fangirling over TV shows, podcasts and comedians. Also, talking about nothing at great lengths.
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6.19.2014

You Can't Read That: Book Shaming and Nerd Culture

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What was the last book that you couldn’t put down? Personally, I’m making my way through The Lunar Chronicles by Marissa Meyer, and I haven’t been able to put them down. The books are fun re-imaginings of fairy tales amidst political intrigue, plague, and the threat of war. They’re also very much Young Adult (or YA) fiction.
If you’ve read the article by Ruth Graham that’s been making its way around the internet (or any of the billion responses), you’ll know she thinks I should be ashamed to read YA fiction. Graham disparages YA for its “pleasurable” reads, its reliance on the teenage perspective, its frequently satisfying endings (where has she been that she thinks this still happens?), and its ultimate failure to be “literary." As someone who is now in my late-twenties (shudder), I shouldn’t be entertained or entranced by anything written from the perspective of a teenager.
Graham argues that I (alongside teenagers and other literarily stunted adults) should aspire to more “grown-up” reading. YA novels, in her perspective, are unable to teach us anything about life. But let’s ignore the argument over whether YA is valuable, and instead focus on the core of her argument: it is not worthwhile to read for any reason other than the pursuit of sophistication. And, Graham asserts, YA fiction is supremely unsophisticated.

Well, I say screw that. We have few enough individuals in this country who read for pleasure anymore—and shaming people for the type of book they choose to pick up isn’t helping the problem. There are thousands upon thousands of legitimate reasons to read Young Adult fiction, but by far the most important is this:

Because you want to.

So, in the spirit of fighting against this type of bigotry and shaming, here is my list of YA books and series that you should definitely pick up this summer! Some of these books share “deep” stories that rival many of the adult fiction that Graham lauded, but some are definitely more fun romps in sci-fi and fantasy. All, though, deserve a read!


Note: The lines of “Young Adult” literature are frequently blurry, but all these books are usually, if not always, considered YA. 


(Superheroesque gets a small kickback if you purchase through this link. Thanks for your support!)

Do you have any YA recommendations? Leave them in the comments!


The short version of this blog post basically enforces a truth that I hold dear—different people like to nerd out over different things, and it’s never brave or cool or responsible to condemn people for enjoying things that you may not personally enjoy. Let’s ignore the Slate author and talk about ourselves for a moment. We’ve built this nerdy community, and within it we should support each other and our passions. As Wil Wheaton said, “Being a nerd not about what you love, it’s about how you love it.” I won’t be shamed—you can’t take my books from me.


As a card-carrying member of the Justice League, honorary Star Fleet ensign, and a Ph.D student in political science, Amanda doesn't have much spare time on her hands. But when she does, she spends it gaming, nerdcrafting, marathoning shows on Netflix, debating Tolkien online, sewing costumes for cosplay, and writing on Geekphoria.net.
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6.17.2014

A Pledge for...



I have a group of 4 geek girls that have been my best friends for years. We’ve always embraced our weirdness together, never feeling the urge to hold back when it came to just how geeky we could get as a group. We’ve embraced geek-centric groups together, such as becoming Nerdfighters or becoming Iggles (members of the International Geek Girls Pen Pal Club). All of our tastes vary, and it makes us a varied group, and I would never trade them for anything.

However, recently I experienced something with one of my friends that caused me to think about those geeks out there that don’t have the same support system that I have, and it’s caused me to look at a few things differently.

As the excitement around the release of The Fault in Our Stars loomed, I couldn’t wait to firm up plans to go and see the film with my 3 best friends (one is currently living in London ON). My TFiOS survival kit had just come in the mail, so I had my pack of “Okay? Okay” tissues, a rockin’ pair of shades, and even some candy cigarettes; I was prepared.

That is, until one of my friends surprised me in saying that she wanted to see it with just two of our friends first, and then as a full group later, because the three of them would get more out of the experience than the two of us leftover.

This confused me; I read the book last year, and like so many others, I loved it. So I asked her if it was just because I never cry at sad movies (I’m talking never – I am made of stone.)

And her response was that she and two of our friends would enjoy it more because I’m not as much of a Nerdfighter as they were.

Here the confusion continued to pile on. Was I missing something? Were there certain leveled memberships of Nerdfighter-dom that I hadn’t heard about? For whatever reason, even though this is a reasonably small thing, hearing my friend say this hurt me a bit.

I told her that what she’d said had been a bit insulting, and while she believed she was elaborating as she explained herself, to me she only continued to pile on. The thesis of her argument was that she, Jessica* and Grace* had been Nerdfighters for a lot longer, that they had been there “from the beginning” with regards to TFiOS. The way she made it sound made me feel like I wasn’t worthy of attendance to an advance screening with my closest friends and had to wait for general admission, when the reviews were already out and the excitement had almost completely died down.

I’m know she didn’t mean to sound that way; I’ve known her since kindergarten, and her heart is always in the right place. However, it got me thinking: Was she right? Could I be considered less of a geek because I was out of the loop during the early years that my friends were flashing Nerdfighter gang signs to each other?

Eventually I figured out the answer was no. But I’m glad for this experience, because it brought this issue to my attention.

Has this feeling of superiority, this sense of elitism, always existed in the geek world? I may have already known that these sorts of feelings exist when it comes to the online world, if Mia’s article about “How To Be A ‘Real’ Geek” is any indicator, but I hardly expected to experience this in real life. It goes to show you that this sort of exclusion exists everywhere, not just online and not just among fandoms.

I feel like we as geeks need a strong sense of inclusion within our groups, perhaps even more so than the average Joe. We need to be in a safe place where our voices can be heard and where we won’t be judged in any way whatsoever. Whether we like to say “Allons-y!” or “Alohomora!” shouldn’t make any difference.


Nerdfighteria got it right. Just like it says in this video, Nerdfighters are just people made up of awesome instead of typical organic matter. If you want to be a Nerdfighter, you are a Nerdfighter! Nowhere can you find any rules about getting there first.

I believe that we should pledge to ourselves, and to the fellow geeks around us, that we are all equals! No matter what fandoms you like, no matter what kind of person you are. Even if we arrived late to the buffet like I did with Nerdfighteria, they should be welcomed with open arms and considered equals.

I’ve always found that the geek girl community I have at my fingertips with Twitter always has a way of understanding with regards to these situations, so I sent out a couple tweets explaining my dilemma. I got quite the response back, which I appreciated immensely.


My friend shouldn’t be blamed or villainized; I should actually thank her for making me more aware of the problems of exclusion, alienation and elitism among geeks and the rest of the world, and she also made me aware of exactly how it feels.

Don’t wait to find out how all of these things feel yourself before you make the change to equality. If somebody on Twitter doesn’t know what DFTBA stands for, help them out while reminding them that they Don’t Forget To Be Awesome! If somebody who is new to the world of the Doctor spells it “Dr. Who”, don’t be cross with them, because at least they’re trying. If you see somebody post online that the first shot was not made by Han Solo, then . . . okay, then you’re allowed to tear them apart ;)



Kacie is a Canadian geek girl who splits her time between being an English & Writing major, working at am bookstore, vlogging, reading, playing video games, online role playing and keep up her own blog. She hopes to one day be an editor at a publishing house and eventually a novelist. Kacie also hopes that her claim to fame will be more than owning 300+ volumes of manga.
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6.06.2014

Happy Things (vol. 2)

Hello and welcome to your dose of happy on the internet! This is a regular installment designed to give you a mood boost - news, videos, stories, websites, and tools that induce smiles. If you have any suggestions for the next installment of Happy Things, shoot us an email!

Source: ColourMoon

Actress Laverne Cox, star of Orange is the New Black, and transgender rights activist, has a cover story in TIME magazine called The Transgender Tipping Point. This really shows how far the transgender rights movement has come!

Reading Rainbow is coming back, thanks to a Kickstarter! They hit their original goal of $1 million in under a day and are reaching for more and more stretch goals.

I read the newly-released #GIRLBOSS recently and really enjoyed it! Great inspiration for business-minded ladies.

This Twitter account sends regular reminders to avoid the comments section. Because there's nothing good in the comments section.

Ryan Gosling or Puppies?


Lupita Nyong'o and Gwendoline Christie are in the new Star Wars movie! This makes me about a billion times more excited.

Animal Crossing can teach you important lessons about self-love.

Game of Thrones ladies crossed with Mucha-style art. Love!

Source: Honey and the Hive

COUNTER // CULTURE.  A series of self-portraits exploring culture and counterculture for the past 10 decades.

Tab For A Cause is a browser extension that donates to worthy causes every time you open a new tab (which is, um, a lot for me!).

Cute, animal-shaped coin purses! I love the piggy, of course.

What has made you happy lately?

Looking for more Happy Things?

Mia is one half of SHe's founding team, in charge of social media, blogging management, and guest content wrangling. MBA student concentrating in Digital Marketing by day, geek of all trades by night. Loves dressing up, advocating for self-love, and crying about magical girls.
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